Read this http://holly–jean.blogspot.com/2009/06/sex-how-soon-is-too-soon-or-too-late.html
i like holly alot. It’s hard to find a pretty & smart blogger that doesn’t flood the whole blog with her makeup loots & 3 fixed angles face. I guess she writes things that make me ponder.
my take on sex is
don’t lose the novelty of it.
It doesn’t really matter THAT much before or after marriage. Well, because maybe even after marriage, u will still lose out by other factors besides intimacy.
When our mothers told us to protect our lovely holes, maybe they wanted to believe that the earlier u did it, the more chances he has to be bored. And of course the whole idea of being ‘clean’ for your husband.
I think it isn’t really very fair to women. Guys need not be too worried about being a virgin before or after marriage. Why? because they have the magical stick or maybe they have to guide their wives during the night they consummate their marriage?
once again, my opinion is to have ahem ‘variations’ when it comes to sex. Because the worst thing to happen is to be bored.
2 Comments
June 16, 2009 at 2:28 pm
the link is not working? hah.
June 17, 2009 at 4:43 am
copy & paste the link onto tthe browser!